MBGN 2013, Anna Banner set tongues wagging over the weekend when she shared a post that said: “Ladies, just a reminder that there are better looking men out there with an extra inch than the one who’s playing games with you.”
A lot of her fans assumed she was referring to her baby daddy, Flavour but according to her, the post had nothing to do with the singer who she also confessed she’s broken up with.
In an exclusive interview with SDK , the former beauty queen cleared up a few of the controversies surrounding her, including the rumoured beef with Flavour’s other babymama, Sandra Okagbue.
See excerpts from the interview below!
On her Instagram post being about her relationship with Flavour:First of all,Flavour and I are no longer together. Secondly,my post has/had nothing to do with flavour. It was just a beautiful write up that made sense to me and I decided to share it with my fans.
On when and why they broke up:Yes we are no longer together. I made this decision recently. I spoke to myself and decided it was time to move on and focus on my future and career.
On why she chose to be a babymama at such a young age:
I never decided to become a baby mama, I just fell in love. I fell in love and got pregnant unexpectedly for the man I loved. I had never gotten pregnant before and I was scared of abortion.
I decided to keep my baby no matter what, I never tried to hold a man down or force marriage on anyone with my pregnancy. You know in life, the hardest decisions always turn out beautiful. I don’t regret keeping my baby one bit. She is my greatest achievement in life so far. I fall in love with her every second of the day.
I never decided to become a baby mama, I just fell in love. I fell in love and got pregnant unexpectedly for the man I loved. I had never gotten pregnant before and I was scared of abortion.
I decided to keep my baby no matter what, I never tried to hold a man down or force marriage on anyone with my pregnancy. You know in life, the hardest decisions always turn out beautiful. I don’t regret keeping my baby one bit. She is my greatest achievement in life so far. I fall in love with her every second of the day.
On why she went on to date Flavour despite the fact that he was in a relationship with Sandra Okagbue: I never knew flavour was with another woman while we were dating. We started dating way before ‘Golibe was composed’. He never mentioned/admitted he had any relationship ties with anyone even after rumour had it that he was dating someone else and she was even pregnant for him. I believed him.
I confronted him again when I heard she had put to bed and it seemed true. He accepted after much talk but unfortunately I was already pregnant,never knew I was pregnant until I was one month gone. What was I supposed to do? Take out my precious child? Hell no.I believe God sent her to me for a reason.
So you see, it was never my intention to break anybody’s relationship or come in between two lovers. I just never knew. For those of you out there judging and persecuting me for something you know nothing about, let me ask,Are you better than I am?Is it okay by God for you to Judge me when he has forgiven me all my sins?I confronted him again when I heard she had put to bed and it seemed true. He accepted after much talk but unfortunately I was already pregnant,never knew I was pregnant until I was one month gone. What was I supposed to do? Take out my precious child? Hell no.I believe God sent her to me for a reason.
I made an adult decision at a young age and I am so proud of myself for keeping my baby. People always say I am competing/fighting with someone all because of a man. Really? Fighting and competing? That’s too much energy. Seeking for a man’s attention is never/ has never been my thing! I’m not done seeking for God and my daughter’s attention.
People always refer to me as “husband snatcher” but please, that is not the case.Many of have been victims of love and I am sure we all know that when a woman is deeply in love,she believes everything her man tells her.
I am not a husband snatcher, I was just naive of a lot of things and everyday I ask God to give me wisdom to see well and make the right choices.
On whether she’s still friends with Flavour: I and flavour are still very good friends. Chinedu is a very nice person with a big heart. We talk about almost everything. I respect him a lot because he is a good person. He has been an awesome father to his child and I respect him for that. He goes extra length to make his daughter happy. He has a beautiful soul.
Photo credit: Instagram/annaebiere

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